Your First Grocery Store Dating Technique...Do the Counter-Intuituve:
For today's first lesson. I want to express the power of an accidental encounter...or what I like to call serendipity. Look at any holiday movie and you will encounter a reouccuring theme: The power of the chance enounter. The potential that the serendipitous meeting holds is truly infinite. Love, is nothing but the start of a chance enounter that has turned into mutual shared moments of happiness. What if we could manufacture this chance enounter and produce the begining of the emotional feelng of love. According to the world renowned relationship advisor and board certified psychiatrist, Dr. Paul Dobransky ( www.doctorpaul.net ), people fall in love when we share positive emotional energy within our personal boundry. In other words, it's the shared positive time together we share with someone that adds up to produce love.
How do we produce love? We must first have an impact into each other's lives. We must cut through our autopilot daily routine and reach that core of vulnerablity. We must reach that spot where we are highly responsive to emotion, energy, will, and intent. Once we activate one of these four core elements we can make anyone fall in love with us. Well that's nice, but how does that fit within the grocery store dating field? Easy, once we produce this phenomenon we can truly give the gift of finding valuable or agreeable things not sought for- serendipity.
Why sow the seeds of love at a grocery store? Why not? Why should I go to normal attraction locations for meeting people? Places such as: websites, nightclubs, bars, and parties? Sure these enviornments are specifically created for the hook-up or a fling, but are they ripe places for sowing the seeds of love? I think not. I believe these places are great to take a potential date you first encountered at the grocery store, but I think that the days of meeting people at these environments for love are obsolete.
Do the counter-intuitive. Why blend in with the rest of the mass population? Why advertise yourself as another? Instead, innovate the way the whole dating and relationship field works. The counter-intuitive of meeting people would be going somewhere no one else is going: doing what other people are not hip to. Doing the counter-intuitive is attractive because you will stand out from the mass population. You will be an innovater, and not an advertiser.
First Lesson: Crash Cart Game
Your first lesson, for Grocery Store Dating, is to spontaneously crash your cart into someone who you feel could be a love target. How do you do this? Simply find a prime love target and allow your cart to somehow hit their cart. Once you do this you instantly activate one of the four core elements of love. You instantly produce serendipity and allow for love to grow. Note: be gentel with your cart crash...Don't be agressive, but be loving and generally suprised. Be ready to have a general follow up to the interaction. This can simply be by talking about an item in your potential mate's cart, or about something funny and wacky (such as: "we need to exchange insurance information"). Once you have activted this outcome you can turn the events into a loving interaction.
How do you turn this technique into a potential love? What's the second step? Stay tuned for more...to be continued.
